I really like DR. DB, not so much. I felt very bogged down reading it. I am SO glad I found out about DR before I started reading DB (which I bought first) because I would have just written it off early.

It sounds like you are on the right track though. You are able to think things through before reacting.

Me: 33 / H: 36
M: 10y / T: 14y
3 kids
BD: 2/22/14
Live in separation 3/8/14
H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14
H moved out 4/25/14
2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month