Not sure what to do

[bluerain]

Stu, I think that you handled your sons call well. He needs to know that even if you arent there all the time anymore, you are still his dad and will still be there for him. I dont think that you should do it on sunday either. Its going to be really tough for both of you, and you dont need to go through it, or put him through it that day, it will shadow your entire day, and I for one think that you deserve to just have a good day.

I dont think that there is going to be any "good" way to tell him. But I do think that you should both be there. I would start doing some research and see if you can learn how to be really sensitive to what he is going to need from you.