Well, I told him that I had been on one date so far but had two other guys ask me out this week.
And he said at one point his best case scenario was "I move back in, we get along like crazy and everything is good"--
except he still isn't sexually attracted to me like he used to be!! But he is more attracted than he was six months ago...
So anyway I said that his best case scenario wasn't happening. I said moving in first is a huge mistake I would never repeat again. I said if he wanted to date and see what happened from there he could but I was going to keep seeing other people...
He said his worst case scenario was we got back together and found ourselves at square one a year from now...
I said don't worry, that won't happen either. I wouldn't put up with that crap for a year! I said a year from now I will either be happy with you again or happy with the next great guy I meet. I am not worried b/c I will be happy regardless...