His behavior is so bizarre! The man who has been telling me - repeatedly - that he's moving out and it begins Monday (today)...half-assed it. I came home from work expecting to find his prized recliner and his personal belongings gone. The recliner was gone...and maybe enough suits to get him through the end of the week. No casual wear was gone. 90% of his wardrobe is still here. No towels, sheets, silverware, or cooking implements are missing. His laptop is gone, but he left his beloved iPod. Though I guess he doesn't need it since he can jam out to his music without earphones in his new place.
He had all weekend to pack, but he didn't. Granted, he didn't spend every waking hour here, but you would think a man hell-bent on getting out of this house would have done a better job at it. My mom is sticking with her theory that he really didn't want to go, but me calling his bluff forced his hand.
Still nothing from him on when we will have our first official date. Just some vague "sometime this week" nonsense. I'm not going to pursue it though. If he wants to ask me out, then he will. It was his idea anyways. I'm going dim and making plans for activities without him. If I'm free, I'm free. If I'm not, I'm not.
What say you?
Me: 30 Him: 31 M: 4 yrs; T: 10 yrs No children Bomb: 10/4/09 S: 11/16/09 D proceedings begin: January 2010
