Urgent Need Advice please!!

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For any body who can gove me advice my sitch is below.

My W agreed to got MC. We have only been for 1 session. this morning she told me that she has made her decision and that she wants out, but she is prepaired to go to MC as we may be able to learn to comunicate better and it will help with our S if we divorce.

I said I did not see the point of going to MC as it will cost allot of money and we will need all the spare cash we can get if we are going to separate and the point of MC is to try and find a way to heal our marriage, she said she would go, her feelings were her feelings and she does not think MC will change them. She has done all she can and does not feel like giving it another shot.

She is still prepaired to go MC, should we go, her heart is not in it and she is making it very clear that she is only going to MC becasue I want it. I am not sure what to do so any input will be greatly appreciated. Should i still say lets go to the MC or should I tell her that I will respect her decision and let her go? I am scared of both!