Is this the end of my marriage?

[Arwen_in_NJ]

I drove past W's house tonight as I had a suspicion that OM had gone away (didn't think it was permanent but thought he had gone away anyway). He is still there.

I am considering just doing the NC letter and doing exposure to extended family and seeing if I can speak to best friend tomorrow night. Bear in mind W is due to be here on Wednesday.

Opinions?

Yeah. If you want to detach, and not be seen as needy and pursuing... don't drive by her house. Sheesh.

"No contact" is going to require self control on your part. You'd better start practicing.