I think we both are codependent, she could never say no and was always trying to change me.

we didn't really allow eachother to be individuals and tried awful hard to make eachother happy.

reading the boundaries book and then I will on the codpendent,how i felt or feel about myself definately had a lot to do with how was treated by her.

funny but anyone else i could be myself, with her at times i couldn't and she felt the same way about me.