Married 6 years before bomb. We had dated off and on for many years prior to marriage S about 1 1/2 years after bomb actually separated 3-4 months No real definite date as to when she came back as it happened very slowly. She'd stay a night or two instead of driving home after work. It was easier. and then be gone for a week. We own a business together and she was staying a 45 minute drive away. I do the cooking and if she left that pretty much meant pork and beans out of a can for her Vs. my cooking, easy choice
Slowly more and more of her stuff showed up and about a month ago I think she moved everything out of where she was staying. Never said a thing about it.
Now she sleeps on the couch. Which is what she did for the 1 1/2 years prior to moving out. Been doing that for 7 months. Hope we don't have another 7 to go.
Really freakin confusing. Kisses me most of the time, has started calling me honey on a rare occassion. Touches me affectionately while in public together but not in private.
I think this path of very very slow growth is tougher than not having any. But I'll take it over the alternative (Most of the time)