Looks like I might soon be LBS...newcomer here

[brownidmom]

Gnosis,

BIM, I was SO hoping you would not be offended and would reply. My heart truly goes out to you.

It is hard to hear, but I am glad to have found someone who can relate to him and thus, help me.

While I can more or less relate to how he is, you do not deserve the treatment you have received. I'll try to make some time to read your entire thread and take note on everything you've tried so far. You've been living through this for seven years and you've tried almost everything I could think of off the top of my head.

Please do, if you get the time. Not sure how informative my thread is. I journaled a lot. I feel like I have been doing the same thing for 7 years, expecting that if I tell the truth long enough, he will just wake up one day and believe me. The truth, they say, always rises to the top. WHEN???

I'll try come up with some new suggestions for you. Fair warning: I tend to agree with Gucci, Puppy Dog Tails and RobX's philosophies, so they may not exactly be DB principles.

It's ok. None of them have participated on my thread, I just want peace in my life, doesn't have to be textbook.

I told you before that this man needs a crisis to shake his head out of the sand and appreciate the woman he has. I do have one idea off the top of my head, but it's very dirty, so I'll hold off on that.

I'm listening?!?!

Keep strong.

I will. Thanks again.

bim