Married 8 years, together 11 (separated right before the 8th anniversary)
-Mini MLC after D was born on 03
Bomb on Sep 05 - secretly moved out and I found him out right before he told me. Runned to divorce L only 'cause he was told I could screw him on court -I didn't know it but he had OP who was just friend when he left, got serious 1mth after he left
Throught all 7 mths of separation he was on and off with OP, had SERIOUS issues (untreated ADHD, untreated depression, anxiety)
Moved back April 06, still feeling depressed, got a new job now and no longer depressed ( I think ) Tells me he doesn't have the same problems as before, just some other issues, mainly find himself again.
We also have an 8yr old boy
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.