If anyone has any ideas on what to say and when to say it to the kids, please let me know. I know everyone is in agreement about short notice, if any, to H, but I'm nervous about shocking the kids by pulling out so suddenly. D17 is the one most affected- she's a junior in HS. S18 (19 on Sat) is a college freshman and lives on campus. I'm expecting 50/50 time with H relative to the kids, but since they are older and mobile, they will have a lot of say over where they park their butts for the night, regardless of what some paper says. Thanks.
