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[awest1217]

Thanks Lucky, but this is what happened this summer. H is a master manipulator and will do anything to get what he wants. He wants OW for the sexual and gf parts of a relationship, while he wants me and S because I am loyal and we are the family side, the belonging side. I guess because of the dishonesty I have dealt with for 9 years, I am not even believing anymore the little texts he sends. The note last week and CD, those were true baby steps for H. The texts are just him trying to make sure I am still here and he can still jerk me around.

Like I said before, I may just be annoyed because of physical, emotional, and mental tiredness, plus sickness, but at the same time I am being realistic about how H is. He is a master manipulator and always has been so I have to always remember that or else...I will be hurt worse than ever before.

I still have hope that God can make a difference in H's life, but he has to be willing just like your H to be willing to change, and right now, although he knows what he is doing is wrong, he does not want to change because that would be sacrificing for his family and he doesn't want to do that.