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You don't believe some people aren't the jealous type? I totally believed it when he told me that.

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I'm starting to get annoyed. He called and talked to some of the kids. One of them won't talk. He told them he was getting a house with a pool.

Should I confront him about telling them stuff like that?

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Originally Posted By: Sad Girl
I'm starting to get annoyed. He called and talked to some of the kids. One of them won't talk. He told them he was getting a house with a pool.

Should I confront him about telling them stuff like that?


Let him screw up his relationship with his kids if he wants. That's pretty sad, though.


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

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The younger ones believe him. He is full of crap, and my oldest told them he was trying to play the good guy. It took all my strength not to agree. lol

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(((((S Girl)))))

Ideally, you could call him on it. In practicality, probably not. He could use some education, but I don't think it can come from you.

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My strength is fading... I feel the urge to call him and tell him off!!

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My strength is fading... I feel the urge to call him and tell him off!!


Focus that energy on doing something fun with the kids instead.


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M: 17 years T: 20 years
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1/13/10: MC started
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(((((S Girl)))))

Telling him off isn't going to help. Somehow, he would turn it around on you. Let it go!

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I stopped stewing over it. I called my bro and bashed him, then made hot chocolate.

I feel good again. lol

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Hot chocolate is always a life saver...hehe


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Separated: Sept. '09
Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09
Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10
Threatening to leave again: July,14
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