Well I relented and sent H a short email:

"Glad your job prospects are improving. I'd prefer to let the attorneys handle the divorce terms. In the meantime, I will need $900 by this Friday, Nov. 20".

His quick reply: "Okay, I deposited the check last Thursday and I've been waiting for it to clear. I will go ahead and put a check in the mail to you tomorrow so it will be there by Friday".

I forwarded his email to L. Here's proof he cashed more of his retirement fund WITHOUT MY SIGNATURE.

L says to ask for copies of the withdrawal paperwork and tell H he must give me 1/2 of what he cashed.

I sent this message on to H. No reply yet, but he's been on FB all afternoon talking with 16 year old niece about rock and roll bands, hey!


Me 56
H 47
Married 21 years
No children
Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself".
Ow Bomb 8/07
H filed 6/08
D final 2/05/10