Met W - Nov 91 Moved in - Mar 93 Married - Jul 95 Left overseas for work - Jun 02 Bomb - Oct 02 Back Together (im still overseas with work) - Aug 03 No Children
Andrew
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To go forward you have to put the past behind you
Here are my vitals... I've known H since 4th grade together 22 yr M 20 He dropped the bomb Aug 02 Moved out Nov 02 Filed for D July 03 Small baby steps Aug 03 H and I are both 39 Two sons 22 18
M-20 yrs &9 mos. When bombed dropped on Jan 3, 2003 Separated almost 9 months. Still separated. DR techniques worked right away-instantly! 3 D-21, 19, 17
Married 8 years, together 11 (separated right before the 8th anniversary)
-Mini MLC after D was born on 03
Bomb on Sep 05 - secretly moved out and I found him out right before he told me. Runned to divorce L only 'cause he was told I could screw him on court -I didn't know it but he had OP who was just friend when he left, got serious 1mth after he left
Throught all 7 mths of separation he was on and off with OP, had SERIOUS issues (untreated ADHD, untreated depression, anxiety)
Moved back April 06, still feeling depressed, got a new job now and no longer depressed ( I think ) Tells me he doesn't have the same problems as before, just some other issues, mainly find himself again.
We also have an 8yr old boy
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
Married 6 years before bomb. We had dated off and on for many years prior to marriage S about 1 1/2 years after bomb actually separated 3-4 months No real definite date as to when she came back as it happened very slowly. She'd stay a night or two instead of driving home after work. It was easier. and then be gone for a week. We own a business together and she was staying a 45 minute drive away. I do the cooking and if she left that pretty much meant pork and beans out of a can for her Vs. my cooking, easy choice
Slowly more and more of her stuff showed up and about a month ago I think she moved everything out of where she was staying. Never said a thing about it.
Now she sleeps on the couch. Which is what she did for the 1 1/2 years prior to moving out. Been doing that for 7 months. Hope we don't have another 7 to go.
Really freakin confusing. Kisses me most of the time, has started calling me honey on a rare occassion. Touches me affectionately while in public together but not in private.
I think this path of very very slow growth is tougher than not having any. But I'll take it over the alternative (Most of the time)
