Thank you Serenity. We are doing fantastic (relatively speaking). We are doing so well that I sometimes wonder if I should still be posting here. However, I remember some posters lamenting that people stopped posting when their situations improved. And I really do still feel like I am in DB mode, so I continue to post. I think someday I may move my thread over to the piecing section, but I have made so many friends here it is hard to leave
I feel the same way (although I don't think we qualify as piecing yet).
But I think it is important that we all can see examples where DB'ing and fighting the divorce is going well, as well as examples where it is not.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
I for one am glad you both continue to come here and advise others - It is a wonderful example to see the process applied and then to see the outcome -
I know it isn't like that with everyone however it is still a great thing to see for all of us.
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
Serenity, Just wanted to let you know I am impressed at how far you have come and how you are handling things. I see what you are posting to others and you are more than standing on your own right now. I would call you a DB success story.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Serenity, Just wanted to let you know I am impressed at how far you have come and how you are handling things. I see what you are posting to others and you are more than standing on your own right now. I would call you a DB success story. Cheers
Coach kudos for the Serene one! (I think you're a success, too.)
Just got in from cleaning & more raking outside. More work, cleaning to do tonight (10+ Brokers doing a walk-thru of house tomorrow), so I may not be around much, tonight. Will probably check in at bed time (()).
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
Your post earlier today about being stronger and holding on for what GOd has in store for you is so inspiring. You sound so much better than just a couple of weeks ago. Just goes to show that pain is temporary, no matter what we are going through. AND that if you look up, answers are just waiting on us, all we have to do is listen.
bim
BIM M 39 / H 40 / S 9 / S 6 / T 20 / M 11
my sitch: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1828127#Post1828127
[quote=Gardener]We should hold a convention or something, get together and have one big DB hoot
Sounds like fun to me
Just tell me where.
"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh
