That's so good that your stomach is doing better. That was sure scary! No good about the sore throat - I'm just getting over that too. I had a sore throat for a week (the swollen kind like you)! Blah. These poor S's though. I know its normal for kids to get sick, but it seems like it is never ending! Yeah, definitely hope S gets better before the tubes. Will they make you postpone it if he's sick?
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I am done with trying. I am not saying D yet, but I am tired of him wanting to be a "family" when it is convenient for him...I am not calling, answering texts, or answering phone calls until I feel better and have gained some strength back.
I think your plan about basically going dark is good. You need this time to take care of yourself and H and not worrying about his texts and calls. If you can detach to that point, it's a good thing, but i know it can be difficult to follow thru on. I share your frustration on this - either chose to be a apart of this family and all that goes with it or not! No picking and chosing or just when it's convenient. Just like my H wants the sex part but not the committment part. Sorry, that's not the way it works. But just to recognize the small successes too, it's good that he continues to think about you and initiate contact and thoughtful messages. Now if we can just carry that success over to the weekends and continue to decrease the contact w/ OW...baby steps...
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10
