I went today and told my friend I can't work on that one. Looking closer at the dates, I realized my D hearing is smack in the middle of that one. You both are 100% right! It's very tiring, and I do need to focus on the kids and the trial. I think my X has probably been doing that for the past year or more!
I made an appt. with my L for next Monday afternoon (the only time she had available until December she said! I'm going to type up lists of stuff we need defensive/offensive. I think he's going to say I didn't communicate stuff (has sent me several emails after I sent him an email to say I didn't) so will try to print out as much as I have been saving (I didn't save the whole last 18 months, but should be enough to show he's full of crap. May bring up my depression (severe) I had Dec.2007 and maybe January 2008 (well after hearing my X wanted a D, was in love with the OW, and my brother had brain tumor (all basically about the same week), I think most people would be depressed severely!!! But I immediately went to the therapist and got ADs and therapy, so I hope that wouldn't be a problem.
I'm going to list his weaknesses: anger and lack of communication, and the last-minute increase in custody for him. Will need to go through emails for those, too. Will be SO GOOD to have this over with. I have to say my friend's invitation to throw a party does seem less and less ridiculous as time goes on!!!
