(((RTGU)))

First, I am sorry you find yourself here...

None of us want to be in this place however you will find the people here willing to do whatever it takes to offer you encouragement, support, advice etc...

Glad you found DR, read it and then found your way here.

I only read DB however I am assuming that the theory is the same -

Don't give him any letter you wrote him.

I understand this is the way you feel and you put in all on paper but chances are it is to long, to full of what you will do to make this right, how much you love him etc...

Don't pursue him, if he wants to talk about the R, then let him come to you.

Originally Posted By: RefusingToGiveUp
can you believe it, angry at me


Oh yes we can all believe it - This is his way of basically making himself feel better for what he is doing.

Read the threads here...Keep posting, pay attention when the veterans come by (Coach, Greek, Puppy, Jeff, Gardener etc...) They are chock full of advice & information to help you wade through the murky first few days...

Breathe -

Take care of you and your daughter first smile


May All Who Seek To Take My Life
Be Put To Shame And Confusion;
May All Who Desire My Ruin
Be Turned Back In Disgrace.
~Psalm 40:14~