CG, first let me ask, how are you doing with everything?
As far as my BIL having power over me or anything else. He is actually a really humble person and extremely nice. But he does stand up for M's and families especially if he thinks there is any chance he might be able to help. He tried to reason with my W and see if there is any way to get her to reconsider things. After 45 minutes of talking to her and not really getting anywhere, he finally dropped the subject and moved on to another one.
And he did see that perhaps she was just playing nice. He said that she may very well have been wearing a mask during the conversation. He knows what she is like.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...