"Not just gifts FG, heck, I opened the door for him!!"

WTF!! Don't do that!

"Relax together and enjoy each other's company."

To me this does not have to have any planning involved in it at all.

"The more of that you can do the more natural things should come to you both."

I agree.

Relax
Eat
Think
Act normal
React.. Smartly.
Do something different.
Emulate.
Do Work.

Lets get "RETARDED" in here.