logged into H's email account thru service provider website and searched sent/trash and guess what I find....
H sent to our realtor Nov 3: ".... A friend of mine is looking for apt....has to be 1bdrm/den....she has told me of a deal she has going and I told her to bail out...I'll let her fill you in with the details. I told her to hold off for a winder deal as she would be renting anyways...Anyway her name is XXX and her email is XXXX."
I have never heard of this friend XXX before - looks like her last name was part of her email address.
@#$%!!!!! I go looking for something and lo and behold... I find this.