Married for 12 years when the first bomb dropped... (september 2001)... separate for 4 months... reconciliation on january 2002... another bomb on august 2002... this time he didnt left home... on March 2003 i asked him to leave home after finding he was getting out with some ladies... He left home... On june 15 we reconciliated again, and this time he had accepted his guilty, his crisis and is showing me too much interest and work for having a better R and M