Ok maybe there isn't OW.... just discovered two withdrawals at casinos in the past two weeks for substantial amounts.... DAMN
He told me once long ago, when TDY to Vegas that his friends where going gambling but he wouldn't go because he had been once in college and knew he would have an addiction problem with it so he told me to always make him steer clear of it.
I am not going to talk to him about it though so he can pull cash instead of being dumb enough to get at the Casino... duh they put the address of withdrawal online.
and to think he sat alone in a hotel room all weekend and did nothing... but he's not lying about anything.
It's really no big deal, he should be able to recreate doing what he wants ... he earns a good living ... but when you lie about it... or hide it... it's a problem.
He blatantly lied about taking money out saying "oh the checking account looks weird because I had to withdraw money from it to go TDY because I am over my cash limit on govt card and they haven't reimbursed me yet... hhmmm 600.00 is the limit and he was gone for 6 days last time and fed lunch and breakfast.... 100. per meal makes me wonder if used that money for gambling too.
ughgh
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too