Yes Forrest, I did tell him. And while I have to struggle most of the time, I do little things that I know are his LL, (acts of service) and also use my LL because it comes natural.
I do MANY, MANY little things for him that I dont post here. I dont talk about the A, I bought him something for the trip he said he wanted, I ordered a gift for his nameday and the kids gave it to him on Saturday (something very special), I look good and smell good when he comes here, I am OPEN to suggestions and dont complain about things he expects me too, I am supportive with his work as always,I am tender and vulnerable to him, I am making a stand with my behaviour towards friends and family, I compliment him on his looks and job (at the game Saturday) and as a dad, I dont push for time especially when I know he is crazy busy etc etc
I am not going to keep tabs of what I am getting cause I will get disapointed. My motive now is to either move forward or be done. It's all or nothing kind of thing for me. K
