Thank you so much. I did just that and he is taking it very hard as he has always had his dad on a pedistol. He feels everything his dad taught him about honesty, integrity, how to treat women and doing things because it is the right thing to do is all a big lie. I told my H to listen to him without getting angry and validate his feelings. My H is not real happy that he now has to repair the relationship with his son as well. I guess that is part of the collateral damage that he did by his choice to stray. It is all really ugly.
Today, I am going to try and make the choice of happiness. The anger is really getting to me. After reading the postings earlier today about why this forum is here, for support and encouragement, I really liked that and found that to be so true during the last several months. Buyt I realize I have to make the choice to be happy when the anger is no longer working for me. The venom that comes out will only wreck everything I have been fighting for. Also, for my son to see that I am getting through this and he will too.
