Together 16yrs, married 10 when bomb dropped in Sept '02 (had been unhappy since Jan '02 apparently). H moves out in Feb '03. H depressed, no improvement until consistently taked meds and sees therapist in May '03, this is also when I start DB. Steady impovement until Sept 1. '03 (51 weeks post bomb) when he says he wants to come home for christmas.
No changes since then unfortunately. But what another few months?