Hey Cupcake. Married almost 12 years, together 17, separated since July 29, H unhappy since July 2001 or before. Started DBing in mid-August. We had our first baby step forward two weeks ago and another step last week. Hope he'll be home soon. (visit my thread - H Unhappy and Left in Newcomers)
Good luck!
totite
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