married 9/97 (but had been dating for 9 years prior)
11/02 ea-ow disc first mutual talk of d
3/03 moves out doesn't want to be h anymore, ilybnilwy
6/03 h says yes he wants d
6/03 a friend tells me about db
10/03 h admits confussion and thinks about trying to come home
12/03 h finally sleeping at home everynight thought the apartment still kept
4or5/04 apartment given up

current...still stubornly waiting for h to ask me to put my rings back on (took them off at begining of sepertaion) but think that things will be just fine if not better.

LL