Ok...I need some good PMA vibes and since I am getting impatient with H during our separation, can you all who have moved to piecing tell me how long you were married prior to bomb and how long separated? I need some hope!!!
Married 16 yrs, sep. 1 month, been divorced since apr. dated each other some in apr. some in may, all July. My jealousy of possible OM has kept us apart since Aug.
married 9/97 (but had been dating for 9 years prior) 11/02 ea-ow disc first mutual talk of d 3/03 moves out doesn't want to be h anymore, ilybnilwy 6/03 h says yes he wants d 6/03 a friend tells me about db 10/03 h admits confussion and thinks about trying to come home 12/03 h finally sleeping at home everynight thought the apartment still kept 4or5/04 apartment given up
current...still stubornly waiting for h to ask me to put my rings back on (took them off at begining of sepertaion) but think that things will be just fine if not better.
Hey Cupcake. Married almost 12 years, together 17, separated since July 29, H unhappy since July 2001 or before. Started DBing in mid-August. We had our first baby step forward two weeks ago and another step last week. Hope he'll be home soon. (visit my thread - H Unhappy and Left in Newcomers)
Good luck!
totite
"Accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative..."
Together 16yrs, married 10 when bomb dropped in Sept '02 (had been unhappy since Jan '02 apparently). H moves out in Feb '03. H depressed, no improvement until consistently taked meds and sees therapist in May '03, this is also when I start DB. Steady impovement until Sept 1. '03 (51 weeks post bomb) when he says he wants to come home for christmas.
No changes since then unfortunately. But what another few months?
Married 7 years Separated 1 year and 4 months Things started getting better after I went completely dark for one month, 4 months into separation...then we started dating more and more regularly. Now we are moving in together Oct 17th!
