That's OK. A wayward will eventually let their guard down, make no mistake. But you have to be PREPARED for it. You know what they say -- "Luck is what happens when Preparation meets Opportunity." ...
I knew all I needed to know, and it was GOOD that I knew it, because no more than 4-5 days later, she tried to gaslight me about not having any feelings for this OM. At that point, I said "STOP IT -- we both know you're lying to me right now. I saw your text messages the other morning, so you can sell that to someone who's buying."
Puppy
Great thought process! They do get lazy when they do not think we are watching.
My WAS was easy to pattern. Her phone was glued to her. I had access to phone logs, saw lots to OM with an abrupt stop. I never saw the actual texts. Red flag enough for me...
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712