I think the end starts when WE make the decision that it is time.

Although when I first came here I said I would stand for my M forever no matter what happened I came to realise more recently that actually that isn't a healthy way to live. My XH doesn't want me, appears not to like me, isn't prepared to hold a civil conversation with me and will call me names to my children as often as he can. Why would I want to be with a man like that?

I deserve better and I intend to find it.


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15