coffee house ladies...in and out if you so desire in 15 minutes. If things work out you can stretch it to 1/ 2 or even 1 hour in that first meeting. I made similar errors (going for supper on the first date). I remember one time, I was looking for the exit before even getting the menu...not good (by the way that was a blind date setup by my uncle). I always approached it with an open mind...no expectations...that helps as well.
