hey LOLA..on the dating front if I may...I will suggest the same as i did BBJ...quick 15 minute coffee. None of those things are acceptable...tongue or come over to my place. But on the positive side, perhaps you can take both those as a compliment... I heard similar stories from some of the ladies that I "dated"..however, don't let one bad experience get you down. If your heart is not really in it than stay at home with your daughter, there is no rush.
J210 (aka the self proclaimed on line dating guru)
