Don't overanalyze. BIL and W had a meal together. Leave it at that!
I know. It is just that my BIL said he would hold off on filing and give it more time after he talked to her. And I am just wondering what gives him the impression that something might change with more time.
Kevin
Nothing has changed. She maybe just blowing smoke as to not look like the only bad guy in the situation. Now if she were to say "M is done, I want out and on with my life" how does that look? It makes her look better to blow smoke like she gives a crap. Sorry to be blunt, but I hear it all the time from my exh and I really think all it serves to do is relieve some of their guilt.
Someone told me a long time ago and I will pass it on: Until the day your W stands at your door and asks to work on the M 100%, is committed and willing to do what it took, and then taking the time to see what happens then take everything with a grain of salt. Remember actions speak louder than words. What are her actions really saying?
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
