In my case it wasn't conscious or malicious, and it wasn't an attempt to make anyone think they were losing their mind.

Just was just unconsciously trying to rationalize my own internal pains and insecurities.

I can see now how damaging and unpleasant it must have been for her.

Last edited by Thinker; 11/16/09 07:47 PM.
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