Why do I let my emotions and thoughts about H consume me? How can I go from one extreme to another so quickly? Yesterday was a good, happy day. Then today the tears just keep coming. Why can't I just let him go? Seems to me that would just be the easiest, least painful thing to do. Why even bother hoping our R will end up on a positive note? What's the point?
And in some cases, you may need to let him go, at least in principle, in order for things to get better.
As for why you would want your relationship to be positive, you've been married for nine years; no one should give up on that much history without fighting for it.
At worst, you will be able to hold your head high and say that you did everything you could.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
