Hi Allyg8tr- Welcome to the one club you don't want to join. You'll find all sorts of helpful people here.
First, have you read Divorce Remedy yet? That book is a great starting place.
Actually, compared to so many people that are early in this process, you sound quite good. In fact, I've been at this for 2++ years and you;re further along than I am. Kudos.
So, what precipated the ILYBINILWY speech? What sorts of issues was he having? Is there an OW or the hope of an OW?
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
