I'll try the speaking softly when H comes home tomorrow night. We'll see what happens. It might come natural since I feel like hell!
Good point on the "interacting" and the holidays. They're never easy, but usually filled w/hope!!!
The medical issues have not happened before. I have no idea where this is coming from, but it's scary because my dad had a quadruple bi-pass @ 53. I'm only 10 years away from that, and I live w/a ton more stress than my dad ever did/does. He's SO easy-going. I used to think we were just alike.
Rodeo weekend! Wow! Sounds like fun, though! It would be so fun if you came by the tournament to say hello! "A fellow soccer dad" is enough of an explanation to the H, after all! Please bring a pair of gloves so you can give him a good whack. You'll probably end up loving him, and telling me I'm over-exaggerating if you meet him. He's everyone's bud. Remember, you're MY FRIEND!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
Please bring a pair of gloves so you can give him a good whack. You'll probably end up loving him, and telling me I'm over-exaggerating if you meet him. He's everyone's bud. Remember, you're MY FRIEND! 
