I think this is one of the worst things done -

Aside from the affair, the fact that H consciously (or not) drove me to the point that I thought I was losing my mind...

That alone should be grounds for a good smack upside the head. wink

May All Who Seek To Take My Life
Be Put To Shame And Confusion;
May All Who Desire My Ruin
Be Turned Back In Disgrace.
~Psalm 40:14~