I am sorry for what your W is doing to your family; but it sounds that you are handling it about as well as you can. I just wanted to make a quick comment on the following:
Originally Posted By: shellshockedga
In a strange way, I wouldstill like to see this have a good ending.
I know what you are trying to say here, but also wanted to remind you that you can turn this into a good ending no matter what your W does. How you live your life and what you turn it into is completely up to you; no matter what obstacles are put in front of you.