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Originally Posted By: Sad Girl
He just responded...I might be busy that weekend. Oookay, why ask why I'm going then?

Trust me, gang. He thinks I have a man. LOL!!


"I can neither confirm nor deny the presence of a hot lookin' man on this trip..." wink


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M: 17 years T: 20 years
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LOL!

I think I'll have to just look at the hot lookin' men this time.

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Now he's sending me email asking if I'll agree to keep things out of court. Swell.

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Originally Posted By: Sad Girl
Now he's sending me email asking if I'll agree to keep things out of court. Swell.


No reply.

He doesn't get to ask that of you; he is not your ally in this.


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Okay, I'll ignore it. Thanks, Trent.

I think he's upset that I wouldn't tell him why I am taking a trip this weekend, so now he's being nasty.

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Originally Posted By: Sad Girl
Okay, I'll ignore it. Thanks, Trent.

I think he's upset that I wouldn't tell him why I am taking a trip this weekend, so now he's being nasty.


And that's why you don't reply. That only leads to trouble.

At worst, if he gets nasty in person, point out that jealousy isn't very attractive and walk awway.


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1/13/10: MC started
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(((((S Girl)))))

If he pushes that question... "I don't know yet. I am going to have to do what's best for me."

I love the way you raised his curiosity without really trying! That's how GAL, and taking care of yourself is supposed to work! Now he can see that you have a part of your life that he isn't a part of, and it is going to drive him crazy! For now, that's a good thing. smile

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Originally Posted By: Sad Girl
Okay, I'll ignore it. Thanks, Trent.

I think he's upset that I wouldn't tell him why I am taking a trip this weekend, so now he's being nasty.


And that's why you don't reply. That only leads to trouble.

At worst, if he gets nasty in person, point out that jealousy isn't very attractive and walk awway.


I would, but he swears he isn't the jealous type.

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(((((S Girl)))))

If he pushes that question... "I don't know yet. I am going to have to do what's best for me."

I love the way you raised his curiosity without really trying! That's how GAL, and taking care of yourself is supposed to work! Now he can see that you have a part of your life that he isn't a part of, and it is going to drive him crazy! For now, that's a good thing. smile


I don't know if it'll drive him crazy, but I know him, and I know he thinks I'm up to something. Or maybe he just knows me... lol wink

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Originally Posted By: Sad Girl
I would, but he swears he isn't the jealous type.


Of course he's not. wink


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."
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