can pursuing a WAS be a 180?

[avermont]

Well, I haven't done NO contact.

Two weeks ago he sent an email link to an article of interest to me. I emailed and thanked him for it.

I sent a note to him about a project he was working on in town. No response.

I sent a photo of our goofy neighbor doing something goofy. No response until he came by the house to drop something off,and then wrote an email about the goofy thing.

Last Monday I sent a link about a VW van (he had several vans) Got a positive response.

I was thinking of sending a link to a youtube video about xcountry snowboarding (we snowboard) It's funny, it's light...it's making contact. Call it pursuing.

Silence is just more silence. More of the same.

what to subtly and gently change in our dynamics??