I think his sighs represent "ho hum.." not "blah blah"
I could be wrong.
guy still doesnt listen to what his wife is telling him.
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Apparently she said that she wants to see me be able to make my own decisions and that she wants to be able to trust me.
wasnt it several million posts back his wife give him a list of things to work on. then a million posts back people were harping on him for still not working on them. And here we are again, still not listening to her, still unable to make decisions for himself, and still swayin' back and forth between this emotion and that emotion. one day this and one day that.
I wouldnt doubt the guys shes attracted to and the guys who she is seeing are decisive, confident, and stable with their emotions.
I wouldnt doubt the guys shes attracted to and the guys who she is seeing are decisive, confident, and stable with their emotions.
Probably true.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
From this point forward consider *any* conversation your W has with your family/friends about the marriage a HUGE flaming match being tossed in a roaring fire. Don't do it. Just stop.
Of course she wasn't opposed to listening to your BIL for 45 min. because I do think she was there to network for business reasons as she was rather upfront about how much she admires his job and how she would like a job like that. So, if she has to listen to him babble for 45 min. about marriage to get to "her agenda" she will.
If somebody told me they would give me a pair of Prada boots if I just sat and listened to a 45 min. speech about pig poo I would happily listen and participate as well because I want those boots.
And saying "obviously" is mind reading. You don't know she wasn't opposed to it simply because she didn't verbalize it. You just know she tolerated it to make herself look good.
If somebody told me they would give me a pair of Prada boots if I just sat and listened to a 45 min. speech about pig poo I would happily listen and participate as well because I want those boots.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
W: did you remember to pay D11's driver? K4D: No. I can't pull money out until I get my card. Can you pay him and then I will pay you back? W: sure. oh and i got BIL all taken care of and settled in his room last night K4D: Thank you W: no need to thank me. he's still family and i love him dearly. K4D: He loves you to
I guess she enjoyed herself.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
pig poo could actually be a very interesting conversation. I can see many places that can lead to.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
pig poo could actually be a very interesting conversation.
never wrestle with a pig. you get dirty and the pig likes it.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
