Never suggest what your former spouse should do with the child support. That's insulting and intrusive
I have no control what she does w/the money, but once she is married, I am going to talk w/her about D's college funds and will see if she wants to direct some or all of the monthly support funds to that cause. XW is super concerned about college savings, so I'm going to offer it. If she says no, we'll look at other alternatives for college funding.
I am in counseling again and I'm looking forward to finding my true self that I allowed to get lost. I'm going weekly and will be in again on Wednesday. That is good for me b/c while I do know what I need to do to improve myself, I'm still reeling from G's withdraw. I need to get back on track and improvements can only start w/myself.
I do know I'm prone to be depressed and I've discovered that being alone in my apartment only makes me bluer. Thus, I've not only got to get out, but I need to exercise regularly again too. I'm really, really down and the only one that can get me up is me, so I've got to trust the guy I know and listen to the voice in my head and just get after it.
