I was in a rut and I'm starting to see my way out of it. What I do know for sure is I've got to avoid spending large chunks of time by myself, I need to get back into exercising regularly and keep having an active social life.
The break-up w/G really shook me as I was getting comfortable and I was attached. However, in hind-sight (which is always perfect), I can see how I lost myself in the process.
I still adore her and would love to be w/her, but I have to stop chasing women and have them chase me. My chasing them is a clear sign of being needy. Thus, I've got to work on myself and cleaning my house so I do have more to give that is positive.
