Hi (((Serenity))), thanks for posting that. You have given me some encouraging thoughts for my day. I have needed to take time off work to cope and I need to set small goals for myself to get through the day. I am going to take some of your thoughts to help me focus on today. thanks again! Rocked
I still believe that H and I will come out of this with a better, stronger marriage however in the meantime, I will continue to push forward towards whatever God has on the horizon for me.
God has blessings with my name on them and it is high time I go get them.
I love hearing this.
You do what you know you have to do, and God will take care of the rest.
I'm looking at a copy of this even as I type this.
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Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
When I read your posts, I think of someone who simply walks in the footsteps of God. I am glad that each day is a little better. You are always in my prayers.
Rocked ~ Just finished posting on your thread. (((Hugs)))
Trent ~ One of my favorite prayers - Thank you for the reminder. Finished catching up on your thread and you are doing wonderful my friend. (((Hugs)))
Tristan ~ From what I have been reading, you have been doing fantastic - Thank you for your kind words and you are always in my prayers as well. (((Hugs)))
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
Trent ~ One of my favorite prayers - Thank you for the reminder. Finished catching up on your thread and you are doing wonderful my friend. (((Hugs)))
I only wish that more of us could be in the same place that I am now.
And I pray for that every morning along with the aforementioned serenity, courage, and wisdom.
Maybe someday I should become a Christian...
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
Just wanted to mention, that it is very touching to read your thread and see how many people on here truly care for one another. And especially for you. You are a good person, and I hope you the best. I know a bit about your sitch, but I'm going to take the time to read it tonight. I wish there was a way we could all meet in person. Some of us really get through our days because of everybody here and it touches my heart. Have a good day Serenity.
M: 31 H: 29 Married: 6 yrs Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old
Separated: Sept. '09 Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09 Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10 Threatening to leave again: July,14
Welcome and thank you for your kind words. I was just reading over your thread as well. I think you are a good person to and I also wish we could all meet in person.
Somedays I spend all day here, just getting advice, reading and then reading again until it is ingrained in my head so that I know how to react in any given situation...
Doesn't do anything for my paycheck but it makes me feel better lol
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
Tristan ~ From what I have been reading, you have been doing fantastic - Thank you for your kind words and you are always in my prayers as well. (((Hugs)))
Thank you Serenity. We are doing fantastic (relatively speaking). We are doing so well that I sometimes wonder if I should still be posting here. However, I remember some posters lamenting that people stopped posting when their situations improved. And I really do still feel like I am in DB mode, so I continue to post. I think someday I may move my thread over to the piecing section, but I have made so many friends here it is hard to leave