I agree, my MIL says she saw it coming, but did nothing. That's because she wanted it to happen. She never liked me. She is loving this! Her quote was "I've been waiting for this day for a long time", when my wife told her she was considering leaving.
I'm sorry to hear that.
It's hard enough when you drag family into the mess unintentionally; it's another when you have a situation like that.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
