I'm just shocked after reading though most people's situations. They are all virtually the same. LBS is stunned, and hear/see the same things from spouse: "I need space", ILYBNILY, they get more spiritual, "I'm a different person now", "there's no-one else", "we've both changed", they get tatoos & implants, etc... It's as if they all read from the same textbook on how to leave.
What I wish is that someone could come up with a textbook of signs to read before we start getting all the above BS!
They wouldn't read it. I point out the "warning signs" to people all the time, but 90% of them stick their head in the sand, JUST AS I DID.
You ain't ready until you're ready. And then you are.
Puppy
"When the student is ready the teacher appears."
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
