My kids need to know I love their mom, more importantly I need to love their mom. If I didn't would I be here? I'm not trying to save a marriage for my kids or myself.
I love her more than she does herself and I love my family more than I do myself.
Secondly she needs to know that regardless of what she does, i love her, too, I'm not going to support all her decisions and vent here.
I could've dropped her and had her attitude and i haven't. That's not a choice, that is my internal make up.
I'm the rock for my children and God willing for her to...
My children need consistency and the most important thing I can do is love their mom and take this stuff on the chin.
I'm the one she turned into a nothing existence and my word is everything.
I did get a couple of tatoos so her name is covered up. For now I didn't cover up the one of her name that she and I got together.
If you want to know what kidn of husband you had, I guess divorce him, because i don't need property or money. I wanted my family.